The week before last my eldest brother Nick had a temporarily incapacitating stroke whilst hiking with his wife Lesley and a group of fellow travelers in the MacDonnell Ranges not too far distant from Alice Springs in the Northern Territory.
It came on quite suddenly, and within an hour or two Nick was completely paralyzed down the left side, and stranded near the summit of a high bluff. He had to be rescued by helicopter, and because there was only room for Nick’s stretcher on board, the pilot, and a nurse, poor Lesley had no option but to continue hiking with the rest of the group until she could be driven into Alice Springs from the camp site later that night. She must have been frantic with worry.
Nick himself was pretty alarmed, too, because I gather the emergency room at Alice Springs Regional Base Hospital is quite bracing, even at the best of times. He recalls seeing beyond the hem of the green curtain next to him a pair of feet dangling over the edge of a neighboring bed—wearing ankle chains. On the other side, a Territorian policeman was piecing together a statement from an Aboriginal woman with two broken arms.
It is a measure of how much, or how little, actually happens in Alice that this shot of Nick appeared a few days later on the front page of the local newspaper, the Centralian Advocate. Mum was not at all pleased: “Couldn’t they have found a better photograph?”
Simon rang me with the news. By a strange coincidence he and his wife Mary Ann had been on a separate but rather less strenuous hiking holiday in the vicinity, and were able to see Nick in hospital upon their return to Alice. Fortunately, we have learned to preface any and all such disclosures on the telephone with the umbrella statement, “Everything is going to be all right,” but even so it was a shock.
Nick is fourteen and a half years older than me; Simon twelve and a half, and Hamish nearly nine. Actually there has never been a time when all three of my brothers have not loomed overhead, either physically (at first) but, in a larger sense, psychically also, as fully-fledged, remarkably talented adults, as different from each other as, indeed, I am from all three—although these days I think we are gradually beginning to notice the slightly unexpected similarities: more than a few vestigial remnants of Peter.
Simon was married well before I left prep school; Nick before I left high school, and Hamish soon afterwards. My eldest niece, Lucy, was born shortly before my tenth birthday. So I had the benefit both of growing up as a kind of only child, my long-suffering parents’ one-boy second family, if you like, and also the excitement and stimulus of belonging to a big family of much older siblings and their indulgent girlfriends, not to mention exotic uncles and thrilling aunts, all of whose whose dinner-time and summer holiday conversations, to which I listened intently and with pride, provided fascination—and also much to emulate.
It cannot have been easy having a precocious baby brother under their adolescent feet, but when, aged 11, I came under the spell of Abba—or, as Mum referred to them, maddeningly, “the Abbas”—there was a moment of crisis. Nick’s dismay at this unwelcome development prompted him to give me an AC/DC album, a plucky but forlorn attempt to rescue me from what he regarded as an awful vacuum of taste. However, my loyalty to Frida, Benny, Björn, and Agnetha being by then total, I responded defiantly by pretending not to know who AC/DC were, not perhaps the first moment of difficulty in our fraternal relations, but thankfully a low point from which we have since recovered.
I suspect Dad was wholly oblivious to Abba, and on the same subject Simon has always remained silent, but writing from La Rochelle, where he was spending the European summer with a pneumatic Swedish girlfriend called Pia, Hamish provided page after page of positive, elegantly handwritten reinforcement. I still have the letter. This was, I suspect, a creative experiment in reverse psychology, but it failed dismally: By then I actually wanted to be Frida. (Straight into the bathroom mirror: “No more... carefree... laugh-ter / Silence... ever... af-ter / Walking through an empty hou-ouse, bum-bum, tears in my ey-es [bum, bum-bu-bum, bum-bum] / Here is where the story e-ends, bum-bum, this is goodby-ay-ay-aye...” with imaginary microphone, exquisitely crafted Swedish accent, and much sleepy-eye and pout-work. I was bloody good.)
For some years until recently Nick played the sexy bass in a daringly nihilistic ad hoc post-punk band called Compost (“We Stink”). They did numerous gigs at the St. Kilda Bowling Club, and the Esplanade Hotel in St. Kilda to general acclaim. The Espy loved them because they sold an awful lot of beer. I treasure their CD, but I confess I do not often play it.
Fortunately it has taken only a few days for Nicko to recover most of the functions of the left side of his body, but when I eventually spoke to him he sounded pretty shaken. I suspect their four children are still rather shocked also. I’m told that strokes of this kind can occur among people even fitter and healthier than Nick, and occasionally much younger also. As strokes go, his was the sort you would wish to have, in other words not involving any kind of cerebral haemorrhage.
He’s back in Melbourne now, and tells me he rather misses the Alice Springs Hospital—but not all that much. I had wondered about the wisdom of flying back to Melbourne, but he says nothing would have induced him to repeat the experience of traveling by train from Alice to Adelaide aboard the famous Ghan, and thence to Melbourne on the Overland. As he remarked with feeling overnight, when you need to fly, you fly. Thank goodness he is going to be all right.
